Friday, October 9, 2009

5 sex tips to improve your lovemaking life

5 sex tips to boost your love life

 

It's important to remember that sex should be fun, so a lot of these sex tips are to help you introduce some laughs into your bedroom, rather than turn you into the Kama Sutra couple.

Psst! Just a quick warning that some of the following sex tips might be a bit adult for your kids, so be careful!

1. Be confident
It's the sexiest thing any woman can do to turn on her man - take control and be sure about what you want and how you want it done.

2. Enjoy each other's bodies
Give each other compliments, pay special attention to a person's less favourite bits, make them feel desired and sexy. Body confidence is sexual gold!

3. Talk.
Tell your partner what you're enjoying and why, even what could be done to make the sex better; faster slower etc.. The sure-fire way to better sex time and time again!

4. Engage in foreplay
It's easy to forget that foreplay is all part of your sex life. Make sure you have enough foreplay with your partner until you're both ready for intercourse. Prolong it by putting your clothes on, go out for a drink or a meal. Keep the evening going on as long as you can until you have to run home for the most intense sex ever!

5. Surprise your partner
Put on some sexy lingerie one evening after work and wait for him. Don't let him touch you, dominate and lead him to the bedroom.

Downward Dog Sex Position

Downward Dog

How to: Have her lie facedown on the bed with her hips raised. (Use a pillow to allow her to last longer.) Entering her from behind, you'll be able to thrust deeper and hit the hard-to-reach pleasure zones just behind her vagina. The snug fit will make you feel larger, too.

Switch it up: Move your hips side to side, and try shallow thrusting and deep breathing to last longer.

Perfect for: Getting her to try doggy style.

X Position Sex Positions

X Position

How to: Start fully inserted, with her facing you in the woman astride position. Move your hands out to the sides of your bodies and have her lie back between your legs, which should be adjusted so that they "scissor" hers. Slow, leisurely movements will provide enough stimulation to make up for the lack of thrusting power.

Switch it up: Either of you can sit up to change positions without disturbing the action.

Perfect for: Prolonged, slow sex to build her arousal.

Woman Astride Lovemaking Positions

Woman Astride

How to: Enter this position by getting into the woman-on-top missionary first. Then have her draw her knees up until she's in a kneeling position, straddling your hips and sitting atop your pelvis. You get deeper penetration, a full view of the action, and can touch her clitoris and play with her breasts.

Switch it up: She can relieve some of her weight from your pelvis by leaning back and supporting herself on your thighs.

Perfect for: Letting her dominate while maximizing your pleasure.

Woman Astride Facing Away SEX position

Woman Astride, Facing Away

How to: She straddles your body on her knees, but faces toward your feet; optionally, she can squat over you. The advantage for her is deeper penetration and control. The benefit for you is that she can caress your thighs and scrotum, and you can caress her butt and back.

Switch it up: To take a bit of pressure off your pelvis, she can lean forward on your thighs or backward on your chest.

Perfect for: Fantasizing about Scarlett Johansson (since your girl can't see you).

Standing Wheelbarrow Sex

Standing Wheelbarrow

How to: Enter her as you would in standing rear entry, but lift her up by the pelvis and have her grip your waist with her legs. You'll be in a position similar to the "wheelbarrow" races you played in school—which were never this much fun.

Switch it up: If her arms get tired, have her lie down on a table or something else that's at the right height.

Perfect for: Sex on the run. Literally.

Spoon Facing Lovemaking Positions

Spoon, Facing

How to: This variation of the traditional spoon can be assumed from man-on-top or woman-on-top missionary positions without interrupting intercourse. From missionary, simply turn onto your sides in unison, using your arms to gently support your upper bodies.

Switch it up: To start directly from this position, face each other on your sides and have her slightly lift or bend her leg while you enter.

Perfect for: Giving her the romantic eye contact she craves.